reflect on how the above have affected you? now put yourself in the shoes of others - it might affect their health mentall/physical wellbeing; their future life chances; most people who do embrace these transitions and major significant changes have the resilience to cope . Others who are not so lucky and are left feeling powerless do not have the strategies or support to enable them to work through change. Also some conditions such as Autistic spectrum disorders Altziemers leave individuals unable to work through sometimes minor changes to routines . Any change is difficult . Have your ever heard of Dibs " Loss & Change" its a long time since I read it but it is very relevant to how others cope with major transitions and significant events that may involve loss and inverably change Hope this helps |